Weeks 23 and 24¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 

Uhhh so I guess I forgot to write two weeks worth of life? I have a bad memory so this doesn’t surprise me. 

As mentioned previously, we started the new term on June 1st. Things seem to be going ok so far. I like the majority of my classes. The Korean teacher and I have had some issues with one of the girls in a higher level class being rude to us and not being a pleasant person. I scolded her in class and my coworker called her mom. Another one of my classes is probably the worst behaved class I’ve had my entire time here. There are four or five students in the class that are angels and the others…well they’re just not motivated to be there or think it’s social hour. 

I asked the director at my school if she would like me to stay an extra term and she seemed shocked that I suggested such a thing. But honestly, this came about after I had talked to a recruiter for a different job I was interested in and even though I would have about a month between the jobs, I wouldn’t be able to go home. I thought about this and decided it wasn’t ideal for many reasons and let him know I would wait a term and apply later. So, expect me stateside ~December and January at least. 🎄✌🏻

Everyone in my family is/was on baby watch. My brother’s wife, Hannah, was due to give birth to their second child any day and being 14 time zones away is a bit difficult to stay in the loop. On Monday June 12th, Astrid Jean joined the Hokanson clan. 

This year is going to be interesting because three of my cousins and a friend are also pregnant, all due one month after each other… it will certainly make coming home in December all the more exciting. 👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼

Friday I went out with four of my coworkers. The first bar we went to had ladies night with half priced drinks. Anything other than beer or soju is generally expensive in Korea so we took advantage of that. Then we went to a dance club. I somehow lost my apartment key while dancing. I went to the dj to ask if they had a lost and found, they didn’t but he was kind enough to announce to the whole club I’d lost my r2d2 Lego keychain 🤦🏼‍♀️ and maybe 30 minutes later the bartender comes up to me with my key! I hugged her so hard. I’m honestly really lucky in the fact that the unlucky things that happen to me turn out waaaaay worse than they could. After that debacle we danced for an eternity. I ate McDonald’s breakfast before staggering home around 5:45am. 


Saturday I was not hungover! Yay. I didn’t do much because, although I didn’t have a hangover my body hurt from all the drunk dancing I did. I did laundry and tidied up. I met Asia for pizza and went back to doing nothing at home. I watched Supergirl on Netflix.

Sunday slept in and met Asia and Sharon for 샤브샤브  for a late lunch. I did not eat 샤브샤브 because it’s hot soup and it was hot out. I had a super huge and equally delicious salad for lunch. After that we decided to go walk around a different part of Suwon. I walked over 11,000 steps so I’d say it was a productive day. 

Until next week,

B

몰라요 – I don’t know

So I’ve been in Korea for two months now. And, 몰라요. I don’t hate it and I don’t love it. I don’t really know what to feel. Naturally, there aspects of it that I dislike; yet, there are some that I really enjoy.

Mostly, I’m just super lonely. I haven’t been completely alone with out another life form inhabiting the same living quarters with me EVER in my 30 1/2 years of existence be it a pet or human. I’ve always had a pet and this experience has taught me that even though pets, obviously, don’t communicate in English – I appreciate their presence and bond. That being said, not having a pet has done wonders for my allergies and I only ever need tissues for my nose if I eat something hot or spicy. I rarely sneeze these days. Also, the absence of allergen trapping carpet probably helps a lot here too.

Last Saturday, I met Elizabeth in Myeong-dong in Seoul for some shopping. I bought a good haul of patterned socks – the kind I used to wear exclusively in middle school. I never thought I’d wear those socks ever again in my life. I bought some K-pop related merchandise – a CD, some stationery, and random things. She lead the way and we ate at this awesome Italian restaurant. We had made from scratch wood fired pizza and pasta carbonara; it was heavenly.


This past week at school we’ve been prepping for Halloween. Which has been a bit of a challenge finding adult sized costume items that aren’t ridiculously expensive. We were also limited to the theme of Zombie Hospital so that didn’t really help with things we did find. Most of the kids weren’t scared but screamed because it was allowed. Some kids were legitimately frightened. One kid’s little brother was in tears for what seemed like an eternity when he came with his mom to drop off his sibling.


Yesterday we had a work dinner. It was steak. I love steak so much. I was warned, but didn’t take the warning seriously, that I’d have to give an introductory speech at this dinner. What a disaster. I cried when I talked about my cat. It was embarrassing.  Then I was okay but damn, I like really miss my cat mmmkay?

catlady

So after this work dinner where the majority of people were drunk, a party of six of us moved on to drink more at a bar.  We drank more and ate more. Then somehow the vibe wasn’t cool enough there anymore so we went to look for another bar… then it was suggested that we go to my house because it’s the closest. I was like sure? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯  So we went to the convenience store to buy snacks and beer. The party at my house didn’t last long but it was interesting


 

 

Hallejuhyer I have access to my $$$ now! 🎈🎉

I went with one of the bilingual staff to the bank today to help along the process of sorting out my account. It took a half hour but a lot was accomplished.

Apparently the lady that helped me last time didn’t really help me at all. The woman who helped me today was giggling and whispering to her neighbor about how my bankbook wasn’t even signed and stamped. So that made me feel great about my previous experience. My account was set up so I could only withdrawal money in person and have my salary deposited. 😳 Yeah that’s practical… 

So while the teller was snickering at the previous person’s blunders I was able to obtain a check card with necessary PIN, a PIN for my passbook, and authorization to send money back to the United States when I need to. 


The teller that helped me also told me I needed a Korean name. I was like, whoa you can’t just throw that at someone like that. I told her “몰라요” and that was apparently a good answer as she giggled at that. I assume she put something like 마리 which is my middle name, but I really don’t know (몰라요). 

I am so glad to finally have access to my money again!